Friday, October 31, 2008

Our Big Fat Brown Wedding: Photobooth Fun

I'm still waiting for professional pictures but we just got our photobooth pictures back and they are so much fun I had to share.   We used Cheesy Photobooths based out of the LA/Orange County area.  They were so easy to work with and I love what they had to offer.  The gave us unlimited double prints for the event up to 4 hours, digital CD of all the photos, on-site attendant, free delivery/setup/breakdown in the OC/LA area, a custom digital banner and a scrapbook and supplies.  They also had this bonus where they were giving us 2 extra hours of service free of charge.  They also offer a projector and a 12 screen free of charge (for the first client to book) that date.   Not to mention that all the booths have a digital display screen on the outside so people waiting can see the pictures as they are taken.

Our guests loved the photobooth and we got some absolutely hilarious pictures to prove it.   The only thing I would change would be to put it in a more prominent location  since some of our guests didn't even know the photobooth was there.  Also, make sure you tell your family and bridal party to get their turn in the photobooth.  My family and most of our groomsmen/bridesmaids didn't find the time to make it over and take some pictures.

Me and the hubs:
Our friends managed to fit in their entire table in that small booth (sorry for the glare off the scrapbook):


Lots of of hilarious schenanigans
Are you doing a photobooth for your wedding? I highly recommend it :)

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Our Big Fat Brown Wedding: Mendhi Night

Our mendhi party was held at my house in Orange County the Thursday before the wedding.  My mendhi artist insisted that I get my mendhi done the night before the party to let it really set in and get dark before the wedding.  This forced me to stop running around like a mad woman and actually relax.  Nothing like getting henna put on for 5 hours to slow a person down.  Lucky for me, my MOH, bridesmaid B, and one of my best friends from college were there to keep me company and even take my contacts out.  Yeah, I know gross.  I forgot to take my contacts out beforehand and with all the henna on my hands it was up to my friend to take them out.  Lucky for me she's an ophthalmologist so I was in good hands.

Getting my mendhi applied.  The paste was black but it dyes (temporarily) the skin a deep red color.

I had to sleep with the henna paste so my SIL tied plastic bags around my hands and feet.  It was honestly the worst sleep I have ever gotten.  Not to mention that we (my MOH and college friend) slept Willy Wonka style so my tossing and turning all night affected them too. 

Terrible picture of me but you get the idea 
Willy Wonka styles

I also wasn't allowed to wet my hands or feet for at least 24 hours so I couldn't wash the henna paste off in the morning.   Instead my SIL scraped the henna off my hands and feet with a butter knife.  It was actually kind of painful since the henna artist sprayed the henna with tons of hairspray so it was really stuck on.  Hairspray really worked though cause my mendhi was pretty dark.  

There are many associations with the color of mendhi - some say that the deeper the color the better your relationship with your MIL or the more your future husband loves you.  Just to make sure both those things came true, I rubbed Tiger Balm all over my hands and feet (recommended by the henna artist).  Tiger Balm smells intense and makes your skin weirdly hot but it did help make my mendhi get even darker.  

After all the henna was scraped off, I went upstairs to try on my mendhi night outfit.  I quickly discovered that the outfit was huge on me! All the wedding stress and running around helped me drop some pounds in the weeks leading up to the wedding.  Although its a great feeling to lose weight, I wasn't happy with only a few hours until the party. I rushed to our tailor in a panic and after much begging he agreed to alter the outfit in just a few hours.  While my outfit was getting altered, I rushed off to get my hair and makeup done at Ziba, took last minute engagement photos with Dina, and then rushed home to get dressed.  

Starting promptly at 7, the house began filling up with lots of friends and family. People enjoyed the perfect California weather, ate some delicious Sri Lankan food, and got their own mendhi applied.  

M's Flowers made hanging garlands of marigolds that were strewn all around our house.
Jill from M's Flowers came up with these modern beautiful flower arrangements - low clear glass bowls filled with rocks, orchids, marigolds, succulents, coxcomb and calla lilies. (Sorry for the bad quality picture.)
Mr. Margarita's gorgeous Mom (bottom center),  grandmother (top center) and four aunts
Me and some of my girls
Mmm Sri Lankan Food
Close up of my mendhi (Mr. Marg's name is hidden on my palm)
My nieces getting mendhi (Ignore the timestamp - my Dad had it set to Feb 2006 cause he's awesome like that)
Me and Momma Margarita
Midway through the night, the families and friends gathered in our living room for some singing and dancing.  It sort of turned into a dance/sing off between my family and Mr. Margarita's family which was odd but definitely entertaining.  

Mr. Margarita's side of the family singing
Our beautiful family friend dancing to some popular Hindi songs

The dancing and singing stopped a few hours later and our guests began to leave.  On the way out, each of our female guests got to take a set of bangles and a packet of bindis.  Divying and tying up these bangles took a few hours and left my us bedazzled with glitter yet again.  I think it was worth it though since I saw tons of our guests wearing the bangles at the wedding.  Also because of the adorable jewelry holders from Pier1.  


Up next, the rehearsal dinner and hopefully soon some professional pictures.

*All pictures taken by friends and family

For an explanation of the meaning of mendhi, read this article from Nirali Magazine.

Thursday, September 18, 2008

DIY Blood, Sweat and Tears: The Programs

Our programs were a labor of love. All in all they took us literally weeks to complete! The reason it took me so long was because I didn't plan out the supplies very well and since I started with only a few weeks from the wedding I was just over it. That said, I'm SO glad we put so much effort into making them because they were a huge hit at the wedding.

Here's the result of our weeks of work (excuse the bad quality picture - my camera is on the fritz):



We got permission from Saima Says Design to use the monogram and lotus flower from our invitation set. I then created a custom art rubber stamps from Rubber Stamps.Net. The stamps came quickly and were pretty cheap.

Then I spent hours at the Paper Source trying to find inspiration. I love that store and its so easy to get lost among all those racks of gorgeous paper and random adorable things like butterflies and mini suitcases. I finally decided to use A7 luxe cream folded cards as the cover for our programs.


I knew that I wanted to jazz up the plain cream cover with some type of orange decorative paper to build on our color theme. I wanted to use the paper to create a binding using my Xyron a la Mrs. Lovebug. Since I'm indecisive I went out and bought tons of sheets of paper in oranges and even reds because I was getting desperate.


I made Mr. Marg and my MOH weigh in before I decided on this gorgeous orange paper. If you ever use this paper, get ready to be covered in gold glitter. By the end of it all, Mr. Margarita, half my family and my bridal party had been bedazzled.


Mr. Marg and I drove all over town looking for ways to cut this paper into strips. Kinkos was our first stop and they said they could cut it into 2"x15" strips. They called me 15 minutes later saying their machines couldn't handle the paper. Turns out all that pretty glitter was really screwing up the blades on their machines. We took the paper all over town before sucking it up and cutting the paper ourselves. We needed a paper cutter and the Kinkos hand paper cutter just wasn't cutting it (ha ha). Instead of shelling out $50+ for our own paper cutter we made our way over to Blick Art Materials and used their paper cutter for free. They were mildly annoyed but the obliged us nonetheless.

Once we had all those strips in our hot little hands, my MOH came over every night after work for a week to emboss the 200 folded cards. I first had to measure out the placement of the monogram and take into account the 1" border for the orange paper.  Then we got a little assembly line going of stamping, embossing and cleaning up.  

My bin of arts and crafts goodness:

Versamark Watermark Inkpad (Image from Papersource):


Antique Gold Embossing Powder


Embossing Heat tool (Image from Papersource):


After those were done, we ran all those strips through my trusty Xyron 900. Make sure that you have enough adhesive for this process. I ended up having to use the removable adhesive for some which just didn't stick as well as the permanent adhesive. I was able to get about 4 strips (2"x15") at a time and about 100 strips for every 40 ft. adhesive roll. That's a guestimation - at that point I wasn't paying much attention to exactly how many strips I got per roll.


My MOH and I spent a few hours putting all those sticky paper strips on the programs. We eyeballed them and could actually reposition the strips if we had to without ruining the paper.

The programs then traveled with me to California since I didn't have time to get them printed and bind them in Boston. I got the actual programs printed and cut at Kinkos on their cream resume paper. I also got 200 sheets of Stardream Antique Gold paper from Paper Source cut to serve as a cover sheet for the inside of the programs.


The last steps (I swear) were to cut all the ribbons, hole punch the programs and covers, and finally tie the ribbons. Just a warning - it takes a lot of hand strength to hold punch with those hand punches! My bridesmaid B and I had extreme hand pain by the end of the hole punching process.

Hole puncher (Image from A.C. Moore):


Ribbon (Image from Paper Source):

Although the process was very time consuming, it was worth it in the end. Everyone loved the programs and it was a lot of fun spending all those hours bonding with family and friends.

What was the biggest DIY project for your wedding?

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Jennifer Behr Coupon!

I just got this email from BFF Bridal and had to share with the hive - 25% off Jennifer Behr!


Make your head happy by using the coupon code BFF

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

The Margarita's Engagement Pics

Mr. Marg and I both had pretty crazy schedules leading up to the wedding and had a really hard time finding a weekend to come out to California together to take engagement pictures. Since the engagement photo shoot and print for our wedding was included in our photography package, I really wanted to squeeze them in somehow. So between our schedules and our photographer's schedule, the only time we got to take engagement pictures was the day of our mendhi party. Since the mendhi party was at my house and only 2 days before the wedding, it was a crazy time for me. Not to mention Mr. Marg had just arrived in Cali a few hours prior to the shoot. The real insanity was that it gave Dina, my fabulous and understanding photographer, only 24 hours turnaround time to create a print for the wedding.

Dina agreed to meet us in downtown Long Beach to do the engagement session. She wasn't familiar with the area and the lighting wasn't ideal but she really made it work. We met at the Long Beach Aquarium and ran all over taking pictures. We posed around the many brightly painted buildings, got some ice cream as props and took pictures in all sorts of shrubbery and bushes. Honestly, when we were crouching in those bushes and around planted flowers I was really starting to wonder what the pictures would look like. Little did I know that Dina would make it seem that we were in a field of flowers or in some kind of field.

In a field of flowers aka crouching in flowers surrounding a water fountain

Mmm..ice cream!
Posing in the bushes. Doesn't it look like we are in a field?
Our best sexy/GQ pose. I'm a really smiley person so this was interesting for me
Dina instructed us to laugh and walk. It was so weird to just randomly laugh that I genuinely began cracking up. Mr. Marg is looking at me like "okaaay crazy lady".


Dina made a collage of these images and turned them into a poster for display at our wedding. I loved the collage and we got tons of compliments about the poster from guests throughout the night.

Did anyone else take engagement photos in unexpected places?

*All pictures courtesy of Andrena Photography

Monday, September 8, 2008

We did it!

Take one elephant and groom...
One anxious bride...
A fabulous and hot bridal party...



Some adorable and mischievous flowergirls...

Tons of family and friends....
A Buddhist ceremony...
A Hindu ceremony...

and you get a married couple!

Ready to party!
It was indeed big, fat, brown and honestly everything we hoped for. I am so sorry for disappearing for a few weeks and for not even saying goodbye as a Miss. If you are willing to forgive, I'm back as a Mrs and armed with tons of pictures and projects that I didn't get to share in the weeks leading up to the wedding.

Did you guys find that the weeks leading up to your weddings are/have been complete chaos?

*All pictures courtesy of our lovely family and friends

Wednesday, August 20, 2008

Sari!

I'm SOOO excited! I finally got to see my sari and veil/dupatta! I can't barely contain my excitement and want to show everyone. Sadly, Grandma and Momma Marg have banned me from showing anyone my outfits or jewelry before the wedding. Sigh. I guess something about "evil eye" and an element of surprise. So, here's a little snapshot of my sari and my veil.

Mr. Marg don't you dare peak! Even if its just a little taste, you are banned from viewing this!

My sari - its champagne colored silk covered in crystals and has a paisley pattern on it. Its HEAVY! I am not sure how I'm gonna walk around in it for hours...
My veil - The color looks totally different since its photographed on the ugly grey carpet in the store. Its a sheer champagne color, cathedral length with scalloped borders.

I love my outfits so much! Its a little nerve wracking not to see your wedding outfits until less than 2 weeks before your wedding, but my designer really outdid herself. If anyone is looking to get a custom made sari - Bhavana from Mehr is the woman to see. :)

Mehr Design Studio
18738 Pioneer Blvd
Artesia, CA 90701
(562) 809-6347

I know these are a tease but you don't have to wait long to see the rest since we are getting married in 10 days!

Anyone else keep their wedding garb a surprise?